Sketches of Life: Weather changed..

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Weather changed..

Really not used to the many changes in life recently...
People/friends who I used to be very close to..suddenly becomings like stranger..

Just as I am still scratching my head on this...more of these happens..what has gone wrong recently...
why is friendship which I used to treasure sooo much...and trusted soooo much....suddenly seems so unfamiliar to me right now?

I told my buddy today that if we dun place expectation on others, we will not be disappointed or get hurt or be affected by them...
Once we understand and accept the fact that despite the fact that we are great friends..we are still different and unique individuals...
God create us differently..
Thus if we place what we will do or how we will react on others and expect the same response..tendency is that we will get ourselves upset and hurt...

Just as I shared with mum few days back..
when we do not expect anything from others..and when we get it...its a Bonus to us and we will be really happy..
But if we place our expectation on others that they should do this and that...we will end up getting ourselves endlessly upset. Mum said she has already know that and that's why she is a happy woman now.

I guess this is a pretty hard lesson for all to learn. In our weak human nature..we often make this same mistake...thinking ...this person/friend should do this and that becuz I did this and that for him/her.

I must admit..talking is way easier than action...
I am still learning this lesson too...
At times I fall... esp when I decided to start a new friendship with him leaving the past behind..and he talk to me sooo politely.. making me feel like we are stranger..this feeling isn't good at all...

Men are like weather...we changed just like the weather...in a split sec...everything just seems to change....

Still...family is what I treasure most and trust most now...at least at this present moment...I am indeed blessed I know...which I am thankful for that.

Good Nite.

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Final Destination of Everyone

Money often deceive us, leading us to forget we will die some day. Poor people will die, Rich people will also die.
In the bible, it says to the Rich, today your life will be taken from you, what will happen to the riches you have stored up for yourself.
So be Wise- store up for yourself treasures in heaven which never rot as it has eternal value.
Our stay in this world is but only max. hundred over years..
but compare to life in eternity after death, what seems long here is but only a grain in heaven.

My Zodiac

Angeline's Zodiac Sign - TAURUS

9 may Taureans never slap or sting. Rather, they creep up on you, affect you deeply and leave their indelible impression on your soul. Think of Taurus as a long sensual kiss. A huge tender bear hug. Or an eiderdown on a cold alpine night. Taureans are warm (but sometimes stodgy) customers.

Many Taureans work with their hands. Even if a Taurus is a computer expert and seems more cerebral than manual, nine times out of ten there is a hidden craft or hobby lurking behind the scenes. Taureans enjoy forging beautiful things from natural materials. In fact, they are attracted to all sorts of beauty. Music thrills them. Flowers enchant them. The countryside seduces them. And art is their natural habitat.

Taureans are forever building their own workshops and renovating barns and old churches. They are not only home-loving, they like to get their hands into the cement and slather on the plaster, if only for the tangible joy of playing in the mud.

Taureans do not take kindly to sudden change. They like to be wherever they are supposed to be when it is time to be there. Taureans readily adjust to routine and for that reason make fabulous employees. Precipitous and unexpected events requiring flexibility and resilience may cause Taureans to dig in their hooves and refuse to budge. Bulls are obstinate and determined to hold their ground. It is wiser not to try to talk Taurus out of a sulk. Just let him paw the earth and snort and seethe on his own. Take a tranquilizer and a walk. Soon, when the inevitable becomes blatantly inevitable, Taurus will budge of his own accord, come out of his sulk and go with the flow.

Sensuality belongs to Taurus. Wherever there is pleasure you will find a Taurean plunk in the middle of it all. They love to bask in the "good life." Taureans cannot resist the tug of the opposite sex. When an attractive newcomer arrives on the scene, count on Taurus to see to it that the outsiders have a drink, are made comfortable and have slipped Taurus a telephone number or two.

Taureans are amorous and romantic without being flighty or maudlin. They are tender and don't mind public displays of affection. Love and all of its expressions appeal to the Bull. Taureans can be counted on to stray a bit where sex is concerned, but they never flaunt their infidelities and usually avoid sticky extracurricular entanglements. If you love a Taurus, feed him.