In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.
- Proverbs 16:9



Friday, September 28, 2007

I love pets and children

Two things which will actually light up my face is..
1) children
2) Animals/pets

Why? Cuz when I am with them..I can feel the simplicity and truthfulnesss in them..
children express their feelings directly without hiding them..be it happy or sad or angry... so does animals..
Sometimes when I looked at my silly looking dog Ally, I said if only i can be like u..or my cat Timmy..if only i can be like u...innocent, simple and cute..not having to worry about anything...dun have to handle some many complicated thing on earth.
I like walking my dogs esp when I am feeling very down..
cuz they seems to feel my sadness and looked and me and after they finished their "business" they would come and sit by me when they see me looking gloomy..No wonder they said Dogs are Men's best friend..

As I was travelling on my way to work..
Thots came to me..
how many on earth or should I say..who on earth can say they are love experts..
can point the way to successful relationship..
Answer..no one..
Many times, we give advise of what should be done best to the situation..
but we neglect the part that..it doesnt work on everyone..
the formula is different for everyone..
its not always 1 + 1 = 2 in BGR or marriage.
There is no perfect formula to successful marriage and courtship..
My conclusion is ..there is no perfect solution or answer to things between Men and Women. Not even a married couple can tell u for sure what is the perfect solution to perfect marriage..cuz no one knows till the day we depart from this world..if the partner will stay faithful to you forever. This might sound negative..but statistic and observation shows that...

I put in sooo much..that doesnt mean he will love me..thats the most precious lesson I learnt. Bible says, love your neighhour as urself..
But first I must learn to love myself..in order to learn how to love others..
But..as I observe..many who love themselve do not bother about others..
they think everyone holds their own responsibility..
I cannot be responsible to how u feel towards my action if my actions hurts you..
which I disagree...
We love ourselves but we also must be kind to others and be thoughtful that we try not to hurt others in anyway..if we really cuz hurt to others we have to apologise for that behaviour or action.

Simple = Happiness..

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I'm mostly Rachel
You are a dreamer, have a really good heart and are a lot smarter than people think you are! Being one of the most attractive people in your social circle makes you very popular with the opposite sex and you have no problem getting dates. You may have been spoiled as a rich kid, but the real world has taught you independence and responsibility. Plus you have an amazing sense of style and you are cool and sexy; but that doesn’t mean you don’t know how to appreciate what’s truly important in life-because you do.
I also have some Ross in me
You're the smartest person in your social circle, and have big goals in life. You may have a little trouble getting dates with attractive members of the opposite sex, but you are very passionate about your partner. You often feel insecure in a relationship and most of your relations end awkwardly. Some people may think you are a little dull and too practical, but you are just being a responsible and mature person. When you feel like it, you can certainly take the stick out of your butt and have a great time.