Friday, September 28, 2007

I love pets and children

Two things which will actually light up my face is..
1) children
2) Animals/pets

Why? Cuz when I am with them..I can feel the simplicity and truthfulnesss in them..
children express their feelings directly without hiding them..be it happy or sad or angry... so does animals..
Sometimes when I looked at my silly looking dog Ally, I said if only i can be like u..or my cat Timmy..if only i can be like u...innocent, simple and cute..not having to worry about anything...dun have to handle some many complicated thing on earth.
I like walking my dogs esp when I am feeling very down..
cuz they seems to feel my sadness and looked and me and after they finished their "business" they would come and sit by me when they see me looking gloomy..No wonder they said Dogs are Men's best friend..

As I was travelling on my way to work..
Thots came to me..
how many on earth or should I say..who on earth can say they are love experts..
can point the way to successful relationship..
Answer..no one..
Many times, we give advise of what should be done best to the situation..
but we neglect the part that..it doesnt work on everyone..
the formula is different for everyone..
its not always 1 + 1 = 2 in BGR or marriage.
There is no perfect formula to successful marriage and courtship..
My conclusion is ..there is no perfect solution or answer to things between Men and Women. Not even a married couple can tell u for sure what is the perfect solution to perfect marriage..cuz no one knows till the day we depart from this world..if the partner will stay faithful to you forever. This might sound negative..but statistic and observation shows that...

I put in sooo much..that doesnt mean he will love me..thats the most precious lesson I learnt. Bible says, love your neighhour as urself..
But first I must learn to love myself..in order to learn how to love others..
But..as I observe..many who love themselve do not bother about others..
they think everyone holds their own responsibility..
I cannot be responsible to how u feel towards my action if my actions hurts you..
which I disagree...
We love ourselves but we also must be kind to others and be thoughtful that we try not to hurt others in anyway..if we really cuz hurt to others we have to apologise for that behaviour or action.

Simple = Happiness..

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